Just like a pebble being thrown into the water, life has its ripples – the consequences that occur after a decision or action.
We don’t know where our life will take us, but know that everything we do has a consequence.
Some can say that everything happens for a reason and I believe that. I believe that everything we do affects others in a certain way – it may be good or bad. But we don’t know the ripples of our actions until they happen in front of us. That is life.
If ANY of you are interested in females, relationships and different females views on relationships, please check out:
I am making a blog for a uni project (still in working process but will be completely finished tomorrow evening).
Please take a look, comment on anything you agree on/disagree on, have any opinion on at all.
Please like anything you like and give me feedback.
The deadline is in 2 days and it would help me so much!
Thank you
Akeshia xo
Please take a look at my new post What Do Women Look For In Relationships?.
Be back to regular blogging soon 
The Psychology of Love is a blog designed for a university project which takes a look at women’s views on relationships and the attitudes they have toward relationships.
Would really help if you all could take a look on the blog and get involved, leave feedback or get involved with the surveys. Sorry guys, answers will only be considered by FEMALES.
Thank you.
This feels so strange to actually write a post on my own blog.
The last few weeks have been hectic to say the least. School breaks were always the time to have fun and to relax but obvious in university it’s not the same. After a quick visit to London and then a panic of work overload I seem to have found myself rushing back to my uni town.
I always thought that I would prefer to be at home rather than in this strange place. But I guess it’s a matter of preferences and I know where I concentrate better.
After starting the research into the blog for the uni project, I have seen that women have similar yet alternative views on relationships.
Turbulent relationships seem to have an effect on the behaviour the females have in their future relationships, and previous patterns are also being repeated.
Reading and finding out so much about the different ways that different women act in relationships has made me look at myself too. Patterns seem to be a thing that we girls just can’t seem to break away from.
I’m not saying that all women are like this. But a majority seem to have had a change of views which have resulted from bad relationships.
I want to know how women actually feel about being in relationships and the behaviour patterns that they repeat. Help me to create my research portfolio and please take a look at my site and leave feedback on improvements that can be made.
After all you amazing readers and writers have inspired on the topic
Click here to view my uni blog (for a project due next week).
Girls please fill out my personality survey on The Psychology Of Love.
When I speak to my friends about their views on relationships, it is so clear to me that we are all so different. Sometimes when I speak to male friends they will make references to categorize all females as the same type. It amuses me to think that all females or males can be categorized in one type.
As part of my assignment to create a blog aimed a specific target audience, I spoke to two of my friends who have very alternative views in general but interestingly in regard to relationships.
Are you a Traditionalist or an Independent Woman?
Hey guys
I haven’t been blogging in a while because i’m trying to get my assignment for uni sorted. I’m making a blog for females. It is based on looking at the different behaviours that different females have in relationships. I would really appreciate it if any females would visit my site, it’s called The Psychology of Love (well of course men can as well but I would only like females to fill out the surveys). It would really help a lot.
Life for me is hectic at the moment. I can’t complain that much, i’m young, free and single. My blog The Psychology of Love will aim to bring you a research portfolio based on the different behaviours that my friends have in relationships and whoever takes part in the surveys.
I will be mainly following the relationships of:
The Traditionalist
The Seeker
The Girl Who Wants To Have Fun
The Hopeless Romantic
The Independent Woman
The blog is still being made so keep an eye out in the coming days and I hope you enjoy!
Been swamped with uni work – will be back to writing very soon!
Depression is something that can creep up on you.
One moment, a person can feel fine and the next they feel as if their whole world is breaking down.
One of the stupidest things that I ever heard in life, was for someone to say that they think depression is not real, that it is just an excuse.
Seeing someone that you love and care about change before your eyes isn’t something that you make up in your head. Seeing someone go through life, constantly battling to do even the simple things like popping out to the shops or even trying to crack a smile, is not something that is just imagined.
The strongest people in life, seem to have gone through stages of depression. A sadness so deep and a situation so complex or hurtful that on the surface some days may be alright and others are just unbearable.
Everyone knows what it feels like to be sad. But depression is something that you can’t just shift or brush off. Even if the person is alright for days, weeks or months, they still feel the same way. It’s been described as a feeling of emptiness. Feeling a void somewhere inside that needs to be filled by happiness.
The mind is indeed a powerful thing and it can affect us in many different ways.
Sometimes I think to myself that if I travel the world I will be able to find myself. But it is not possible to just run away from the void that you feel inside. Sometimes the only way that things can get better is to change a routine and to develop different habits of distraction.
In the past, this void would be filled by male attention. The feeling of being wanted by someone. But I no longer see the point in dating for the sake of it. Yes going on dates with different people is one way of building confidence but there is no point trying to rebound and to force yourself to get over one person by getting with another.
Despite everything that any of you readers are going through, remember that we make mistakes in order for us to learn from them. There is no such thing as a perfect person, so don’t beat yourself up for being a bit difficult.
Live, love, learn, appreciate,
aspire, achieve.
Akeshia xo
I dreamt of a place full of love,
Where the angels go to play,
A place that belongs high above,
And no people go astray.
The place was filled with beauty,
No cries, no pain, no hurt.
For once the world had no duty,
No reason to be alert.
The atmosphere was calming,
No sign of deceit or lies.
A break from death and embalming,
No need for hatred, war and disguise.
I woke up in the morning,
With a smile upon my face.
No indication of hate or scorning,
Just beauty, sunshine and grace.
I felt like there were no worries,
No-one to try and cause me pain.
But then I wandered back to reality,
And again I was to blame.
If only there was somewhere,
That could take away the strain.
The burdens of everyday life,
People living their life like it’s just a game.
But through this hurt and torment,
There seems to be a light,
A chance to live without consent,
And for the whole world to unite.
Akeshia xo
