Automatically when I hear the words “I’ve never had a relationship” my mind shouts “Player”.
But the truth is, sometimes you can be wrong.
Now it is clear that women and men think as two different beings. Girl’s seem to have more affection and respond more based on their emotions whereas men just do. They do what they when, when they want and there are no questions asked about it.
Hard facts: Men will always be judged differently in society than women.
Scenario: A man is out with his friends in a club, he’s drinking a lot and a lot of women are giving him attention. He can either take the girl home, sleep with her and then carry on with life or he can go home alone etc. Now if that guy takes the first option, in the eyes of his friends “he’s the man” – he has performed like a man and done what a guy would do. Now think if it was the other way round and it was a woman doing that…
Nowadays girls have become just as and maybe even more sexually promiscuous than males. But despite this, they are viewed in the eyes of people as “loose, slags” and still in a way frowned upon. But if a man does that, then it’s different isn’t it?
When I heard from this guy that he’s never had a relationship, this is exactly what my mind focussed on. I understand that some people prefer to be single and some others want relationships or you could be in the middle like me but the thought of the situation dazed me.
Sometimes you can meet the most confusing of people. I’m analytical. When I meet someone, I like to analyse them and try to work them out in my head. Not in a judging type of way, but just as a guess to see if they meet my expectations or differ. Somewhere along the lines of trying to work him out and also stand my ground, I seem to have become consumed with the joy of liking someone and to be honest I don’t care. I’m strong.