Although we know that where there is a beginning there will surely be an end. For some of us, letting go is the hardest part of a break up.
After putting so much effort into something that you had so much trust in, seeing everything fall apart is the worst thing.
Despite seeing some of my closest friends going through the most unimaginable experiences with guys, a lot of us feel like we can’t remove ourselves from the situation.
Our hearts convince us that the relationship is something that we need. Something that we will not allow to walk out of our lives.
This type of dependency can be very destructive to even the strongest of people. Somewhere along the lines of trying to think with our heads, emotions switch on to sync mode and everything else follows.
“Head over heels in love”
This is exactly what we become. Consuming ourselves in something that we get so far into that there is no sign of hope of picking ourselves up again.
“Why do we do this to ourselves?” Some may think.
We are only human. We feel instincts and we take actions that result in consequences.
Deciding to the leave the guy who treated me so badly was the best thing I ever did. After that I felt free. Everyone deserves to be free. It is your life.